The Kinky Map

The Kinky Map

How to use

Copy the URL from your browser and share it with your play partner. You can also share links to your online profiles if desired.

Enter your name, and the "Me and Partner" tab will display the names.

Use the sliders to indicate your preferences and consent for each activity.

If you adjust the sliders, share the updated URL with your partner.

Take your time to set your sliders before sharing.

Your preferences and data are not stored; it’s completely anonymous.

Me / Role: What you enjoy doing to your partner
Partner / Role: What you enjoy receiving from your partner

Hard Limit - Absolutely not

Curious - Willing to explore

Moderate - Enjoy

Oh Yes - Enthusiastic consent

Safe Words

Safe words are essential for maintaining consent and communication during BDSM activities. Below are some expamples of safe words:

Green - Everything is okay, continue.
Yellow - Slow down or check-in.
Red - Stop immediately.

Make sure both partners agree on safe words before starting.

Aftercare

Aftercare ensures both partners feel supported post-scene. Below are some expamples of how aftercare may include:

Water, snacks, or a blanket.
Cuddling or holding each other.
Discussing the scene and feelings.
Taking care of marks or injuries.

Plan aftercare with your partner beforehand.

Oral Vaginal Anal

Kissing Hard Limit

Masturbation Hard Limit

Oral (Received) Hard Limit

Oral (No ejaculation) Hard Limit

Oral (With ejaculation) Hard Limit

Deepthroating Hard Limit

Face Fucking Hard Limit

Vaginal (Condom) Hard Limit

Vaginal (No Condom) Hard Limit

Anal (Condom) Hard Limit

Anal (No Condom) Hard Limit

Rimming (Receiving) Hard Limit

Rimming (Giving) Hard Limit

Vaginal Fingering Hard Limit

Anal Fingering Hard Limit

Vaginal Fisting Hard Limit

Anal Fisting Hard Limit

Positions

Missionary Hard Limit

Doggy Hard Limit

Cowgirl Hard Limit

Reversed Cowgirl Hard Limit

Spooning Hard Limit

69 Hard Limit

Amazon Position Hard Limit

Face Sitting Hard Limit

Prone Bone Hard Limit

Kamasutra Position Hard Limit

Tantric Positions Hard Limit

Toys

Dildo Hard Limit

Vibrator Hard Limit

Remote Vibrator Hard Limit

Anal Plug Hard Limit

Strap on Hard Limit

Anal Hook Hard Limit

Ben Wa Balls Hard Limit

Inflatables Hard Limit

Fuck Machine Hard Limit

Milking Machine Hard Limit

Cock Ring Hard Limit

Orgasm Control

Edging Hard Limit

Chastity Hard Limit

Orgasm Denial Hard Limit

Forced Orgasm Hard Limit

Prostate Milking Hard Limit

Post Orgasm Torture Hard Limit

Vagina Pump Hard Limit

Cock Pump Hard Limit

Worship

Body Hard Limit

Feet Hard Limit

Hands Hard Limit

Genitals Hard Limit

Armpits Hard Limit

Boots Hard Limit

High Heels Hard Limit

Cock Warming Hard Limit

Role Playing

Age Play Hard Limit

Master/slave Hard Limit

Caregiver/little Hard Limit

Doctor/Patient Hard Limit

Carer/Adult Baby Hard Limit

Pet Play Hard Limit

CNC Hard Limit

Kidnapping Hard Limit

Protocol Hard Limit

Public Play Hard Limit

Submission to Others Hard Limit

Psychological

Domination Hard Limit

Humiliation Hard Limit

Degradation Hard Limit

Hypnosis Hard Limit

Confusion Hard Limit

Fear Play Hard Limit

Spitting Hard Limit

Forced Clothing Hard Limit

Forced Haircut Hard Limit

Genital Shaving Hard Limit

Sissification Hard Limit

Aggressive Language Hard Limit

Isolation Hard Limit

Forced Body Modification Hard Limit

Nipples

Gentle Teasing Hard Limit

Biting Hard Limit

Pinching Hard Limit

Torture Hard Limit

Tweezer Clamps Hard Limit

Japanese Clover Hard Limit

Suction Cups Hard Limit

Bondage

Handcuffs Hard Limit

Rope Bondage Hard Limit

Leather Restraints Hard Limit

Metal Restraints Hard Limit

Long Term Bondage Hard Limit

Mummification Hard Limit

Sleepsack Hard Limit

Straightjacket Hard Limit

Predicament Hard Limit

Hair Tie Hard Limit

Hog Tie Hard Limit

Neck Tie Hard Limit

Spread Eagle Hard Limit

Vacuum Bed Hard Limit

Mitts Hard Limit

Collar Hard Limit

Suspension Hard Limit

Gags

Fabric Hard Limit

Bite Gag Hard Limit

Ball Gag Hard Limit

Sock / Stockings Hard Limit

Pecker Gag Hard Limit

Inflatable Hard Limit

O-Ring Hard Limit

Dental Gag Hard Limit

Tape Hard Limit

Muzzle Hard Limit

Nose Hook Hard Limit

Impact

Bare Hand Spanking Hard Limit

Paddle Hard Limit

Slapping Hard Limit

Flogging Hard Limit

Riding Crop Hard Limit

Caning Hard Limit

Whips Hard Limit

Bastinado Hard Limit

No Warm Up Hard Limit

Gut Punching Hard Limit

Trampling Hard Limit

Marks

No Marks Hard Limit

Lasting Few Hours Hard Limit

Lasting 1-2 Days Hard Limit

Lasting 1-2 Weeks Hard Limit

Permanent Marks Hard Limit

Sensation Play

Pinwheel Hard Limit

Wax Hard Limit

Ice Hard Limit

Fire Play Hard Limit

Biting Hard Limit

Clothes Pegs / Clamps Hard Limit

Tickling Hard Limit

Clawing Hard Limit

Genital Torture

Testicles Hard Limit

Penis Hard Limit

Pin Prick Parachute Hard Limit

Tiger Balm on Genitals Hard Limit

Ball Stretching Hard Limit

Ball Crunching Hard Limit

Ball Slapping Hard Limit

Genital Bondage Hard Limit

Genital Spanking Hard Limit

Genital Clamps Hard Limit

Sensory

Blindfold Hard Limit

Hood Hard Limit

Ear Plugs / Muffler Hard Limit

Electro

Muscles Hard Limit

Vagina Hard Limit

Penis Hard Limit

Balls Hard Limit

Anal Hard Limit

Violet Wand Hard Limit

Shock Collar Hard Limit

Taser Hard Limit

Medical Play

Sounding Hard Limit

Needle Play Hard Limit

Piercing Hard Limit

Rectal Examination Hard Limit

Urological Examination Hard Limit

Enemas Hard Limit

Suppositories Hard Limit

Prostate Massage Hard Limit

Orthopaedic Cast Hard Limit

Speculum Hard Limit

Blood Play Hard Limit

Golden Shower

On Body Hard Limit

On Face Hard Limit

On Clothes Hard Limit

Drinking Own's Hard Limit

Drinking Else's Hard Limit

Funnel Gag Hard Limit

Diapers Hard Limit

Toilet Control Hard Limit

Scat Hard Limit

Breath Play

Hand over Mouth Hard Limit

Re-breather Hard Limit

Gas Mask Hard Limit

Swimming Cap Hard Limit

Strangulation Hard Limit

Hand on Neck Hard Limit

Forced Poppers Hard Limit

Grouping

Threesome Hard Limit

Orgy Hard Limit

Gangbang Hard Limit

Swing Hard Limit

Couple Play Hard Limit

Group Role Play Hard Limit

Materials

Latex / Rubber Hard Limit

PVC / PU Hard Limit

Leather Hard Limit

Wood Hard Limit

Fur Hard Limit

Metal Hard Limit

Silk / Satin Hard Limit

Photography

Body Hard Limit

Face (Recognizable) Hard Limit

Face (Unrecognizable) Hard Limit

Genitals Hard Limit

Nipples Hard Limit

Publishable Without Face Hard Limit

Publishable With Face (Unrecognizable) Hard Limit

Publishable With Face (Recognizable) Hard Limit

Publishable with Nipples Hard Limit

Publishable with Genitals Hard Limit

Sexual Acts Hard Limit

Publishable Sexual Acts Hard Limit

Oral Vaginal Anal

Kissing Hard Limit

Masturbation Hard Limit

Oral (Received) Hard Limit

Oral (No ejaculation) Hard Limit

Oral (With ejaculation) Hard Limit

Deepthroating Hard Limit

Face Fucking Hard Limit

Vaginal (Condom) Hard Limit

Vaginal (No Condom) Hard Limit

Anal (Condom) Hard Limit

Anal (No Condom) Hard Limit

Rimming (Receiving) Hard Limit

Rimming (Giving) Hard Limit

Vaginal Fingering Hard Limit

Anal Fingering Hard Limit

Vaginal Fisting Hard Limit

Anal Fisting Hard Limit

Positions

Missionary Hard Limit

Doggy Hard Limit

Cowgirl Hard Limit

Reversed Cowgirl Hard Limit

Spooning Hard Limit

69 Hard Limit

Amazon Position Hard Limit

Face Sitting Hard Limit

Prone Bone Hard Limit

Kamasutra Position Hard Limit

Tantric Positions Hard Limit

Toys

Dildo Hard Limit

Vibrator Hard Limit

Remote Vibrator Hard Limit

Anal Plug Hard Limit

Strap on Hard Limit

Anal Hook Hard Limit

Ben Wa Balls Hard Limit

Inflatables Hard Limit

Fuck Machine Hard Limit

Milking Machine Hard Limit

Cock Ring Hard Limit

Orgasm Control

Edging Hard Limit

Chastity Hard Limit

Orgasm Denial Hard Limit

Forced Orgasm Hard Limit

Prostate Milking Hard Limit

Post Orgasm Torture Hard Limit

Vagina Pump Hard Limit

Cock Pump Hard Limit

Worship

Body Hard Limit

Feet Hard Limit

Hands Hard Limit

Genitals Hard Limit

Armpits Hard Limit

Boots Hard Limit

High Heels Hard Limit

Cock Warming Hard Limit

Role Playing

Age Play Hard Limit

Master/slave Hard Limit

Caregiver/little Hard Limit

Doctor/Patient Hard Limit

Carer/Adult Baby Hard Limit

Pet Play Hard Limit

CNC Hard Limit

Kidnapping Hard Limit

Protocol Hard Limit

Public Play Hard Limit

Submission to Others Hard Limit

Psychological

Domination Hard Limit

Humiliation Hard Limit

Degradation Hard Limit

Hypnosis Hard Limit

Confusion Hard Limit

Fear Play Hard Limit

Spitting Hard Limit

Forced Clothing Hard Limit

Forced Haircut Hard Limit

Genital Shaving Hard Limit

Sissification Hard Limit

Aggressive Language Hard Limit

Isolation Hard Limit

Forced Body Modification Hard Limit

Nipples

Gentle Teasing Hard Limit

Biting Hard Limit

Pinching Hard Limit

Torture Hard Limit

Tweezer Clamps Hard Limit

Japanese Clover Hard Limit

Suction Cups Hard Limit

Bondage

Handcuffs Hard Limit

Rope Bondage Hard Limit

Leather Restraints Hard Limit

Metal Restraints Hard Limit

Long Term Bondage Hard Limit

Mummification Hard Limit

Sleepsack Hard Limit

Straightjacket Hard Limit

Predicament Hard Limit

Hair Tie Hard Limit

Hog Tie Hard Limit

Neck Tie Hard Limit

Spread Eagle Hard Limit

Vacuum Bed Hard Limit

Mitts Hard Limit

Collar Hard Limit

Suspension Hard Limit

Gags

Fabric Hard Limit

Bite Gag Hard Limit

Ball Gag Hard Limit

Sock / Stockings Hard Limit

Pecker Gag Hard Limit

Inflatable Hard Limit

O-Ring Hard Limit

Dental Gag Hard Limit

Tape Hard Limit

Muzzle Hard Limit

Nose Hook Hard Limit

Impact

Bare Hand Spanking Hard Limit

Paddle Hard Limit

Slapping Hard Limit

Flogging Hard Limit

Riding Crop Hard Limit

Caning Hard Limit

Whips Hard Limit

Bastinado Hard Limit

No Warm Up Hard Limit

Gut Punching Hard Limit

Trampling Hard Limit

Marks

No Marks Hard Limit

Lasting Few Hours Hard Limit

Lasting 1-2 Days Hard Limit

Lasting 1-2 Weeks Hard Limit

Permanent Marks Hard Limit

Sensation Play

Pinwheel Hard Limit

Wax Hard Limit

Ice Hard Limit

Fire Play Hard Limit

Biting Hard Limit

Clothes Pegs / Clamps Hard Limit

Tickling Hard Limit

Clawing Hard Limit

Genital Torture

Testicles Hard Limit

Penis Hard Limit

Pin Prick Parachute Hard Limit

Tiger Balm on Genitals Hard Limit

Ball Stretching Hard Limit

Ball Crunching Hard Limit

Ball Slapping Hard Limit

Genital Bondage Hard Limit

Genital Spanking Hard Limit

Genital Clamps Hard Limit

Sensory

Blindfold Hard Limit

Hood Hard Limit

Ear Plugs / Muffler Hard Limit

Electro

Muscles Hard Limit

Vagina Hard Limit

Penis Hard Limit

Balls Hard Limit

Anal Hard Limit

Violet Wand Hard Limit

Shock Collar Hard Limit

Taser Hard Limit

Medical Play

Sounding Hard Limit

Needle Play Hard Limit

Piercing Hard Limit

Rectal Examination Hard Limit

Urological Examination Hard Limit

Enemas Hard Limit

Suppositories Hard Limit

Prostate Massage Hard Limit

Orthopaedic Cast Hard Limit

Speculum Hard Limit

Blood Play Hard Limit

Golden Shower

On Body Hard Limit

On Face Hard Limit

On Clothes Hard Limit

Drinking Own's Hard Limit

Drinking Else's Hard Limit

Funnel Gag Hard Limit

Diapers Hard Limit

Toilet Control Hard Limit

Scat Hard Limit

Breath Play

Hand over Mouth Hard Limit

Re-breather Hard Limit

Gas Mask Hard Limit

Swimming Cap Hard Limit

Strangulation Hard Limit

Hand on Neck Hard Limit

Forced Poppers Hard Limit

Grouping

Threesome Hard Limit

Orgy Hard Limit

Gangbang Hard Limit

Swing Hard Limit

Couple Play Hard Limit

Group Role Play Hard Limit

Materials

Latex / Rubber Hard Limit

PVC / PU Hard Limit

Leather Hard Limit

Wood Hard Limit

Fur Hard Limit

Metal Hard Limit

Silk / Satin Hard Limit

Photography

Body Hard Limit

Face (Recognizable) Hard Limit

Face (Unrecognizable) Hard Limit

Genitals Hard Limit

Nipples Hard Limit

Publishable Without Face Hard Limit

Publishable With Face (Unrecognizable) Hard Limit

Publishable With Face (Recognizable) Hard Limit

Publishable with Nipples Hard Limit

Publishable with Genitals Hard Limit

Sexual Acts Hard Limit

Publishable Sexual Acts Hard Limit

Personal Notes

Type your thoughts, expecations, any old/ongoing medical conditions. Anything to be aware of.

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